While everybody’s fear is not fitting in with the rest, mine is to unconsciously become a replica of what everyone else is. We’re slowly becoming copies of each others; we unknowingly give in to what society views as the norm, and we give up on habits that we believe don’t match those norms, the box that society created with labels attached to its every corner has imprisoned us and we failed to realize that this box only exist in our minds. It is human nature to try and conform with society but to an extent, and then it becomes blind conformity that leads to the loss of our identity. The following are theories of why you shouldn’t conform to the rest.
1. It’s all in our heads, perfection is a myth.
Who decided that the most popular in school should be that cool kid who ditches classes and bully others? Us. And who decided that the one with a book in hand is a nerd? Also us. We created the labels, we weren’t born with the categorizations, you’re both students but with different interests, that’s all.
Start your own labels, find those who fit to your own category. Instead of bending and changing to satisfy a category that’s not yours.
2. Therefore the social risk, also a myth!
Social risk is the fear of not fitting in society, but then again we’re those who created the labeling and the ideals of what makes one a true fit or not, and thus we’re also able to change those labeling or better yet end them.
3. Different is good, similar is also good.
I’m not here to say that standing out feels special because not everyone has the uniqueness to stand out, adapting to an environment is no shame. Losing yourself in the process is what’s wrong. The fear of not belonging is common and natural but once you get to the point of accepting those differences, you’ll come to love who you are.
4. You choose your influencers!
Conforming with someone with a more social influence is another psychological act, one that many does unknowingly, we watch how influencers dress and we mimic their style believing that this way, we’re more likely to fit in. But then again, all those followers and all those likes, who made them? Us. Then why do we try so hard to follow someone else’s lead instead of creating our own?
5. There are no minority and majority, only different sets of minds.
The sense of belonging to the majority gives us satisfaction and boosts our self-esteem, whilst being with the minority boosts our insecurities, then again who decided that differences in opinions should divide us to groups? Also us. Then why can’t we accept that there is no us VS them? Only different sets of minds with different views, opinions and values.
Bottom line is, if you ever feel the need to change your behavior, do it with the conviction that this a way for you to become a better version of yourself, to evolve not to change, to never letting go of your true essence; because day by day you’ll start losing bits of who you are until there’s nothing left of you to be fixed.
Citroen Advert by Amr Diab is Backlashed Over Sexual Harassment
In an advertisement for the Citroën car, starring Amr Diab a highly established Egyptian Singer was scandalized for sexual harassment. The advertisement had featured a scene when he almost hit a woman with his car, crossing the road Infront of him. The star had had snapped a photo of the beautiful lady without her consent using the car’s knew future to take photos, and connecting to the phone. The two are seen together having a good time, after he snapped a photo of her. The creepy advert had implied, harassment, specially from a sixty-year-old singer who is admired by youth. The iconic singer, seen by individuals as a role model. Though intended to feature the cars camera, and its features in the short advert, the advertisement was backlashed and fired for sexual harassment online, by pressure the French company had filed an apology for the commercial. The video is not approved by the audience online, as a consequence the company had issued this statement “We deeply regret and understand the negative interpretation of this part of this film. With our business partner in Egypt, we took the decision to withdraw this commercial from all Citroën channels and we present our sincere apologies to all offended communities by this film,”, and no comment from Amr Diab on this video. As feminists online are outraged from the video and, oppose the idea of photographing girls on the street without their consent. In closure the advert had promoted a disgusting act of sexual harassment that should be disregarded from society.
So, What Was Up With 2021
Bullying in Egyptian Youth and the Girl Code
We have all been victims of bullying in our lives, but at what extent will it affect our society? Egyptian youth are rapidly emerging and off to a bright future, but is it really bright when you are crippled and demoralized from one another? Manners are essential and influential in our lives, talking graciously, smiling to another, and embracing positivity is part of who we are as humans. A complex obstacle that faces our generation daily is that we hinder each other with words, actions, and coarseness. The unpolished generation is daily becoming, more vulgar, as they find each other foolish and insane for the most unreasonable ways. Common Communication with one another is found to be ignorant and arrogant. Girls between ages 14 to 30, in educational institutions, are extremely abusive to each other, and scandalizers are extremely common. The circulation of rumors, and barbaric actions to one another are also extremely common. Usually, reffering to the girl code, girls are supposed to support each other, and not backstab one another. A person who does not support one another, or causes botherations to another, is considered harmful to society. Another perplexing issue facing society is emotional manipulation and group circulation against one person. Emotions are reactions over anything or occurrences that happen. This dark circle of manipulation and mind games can drive people to collapse. Emotionally manipulating a person, or grouping against a person, is not a trait to be celebrated but a trait that is found to be pathetic. Only a person who is pessimistic and miserable will emotionally manipulate a person. In addition, they tend to degrade from one another, quarrel, and give off cold behavior. The creation of scenes, quarrelling, and humiliating each other publicly is a despairing issue that people face. Quarrelling, shouting, swearing, and humiliating between people will be a mortifying issue for our society in the future. How can we expect people to live with such grief and anger? When people respond to an individual’s natural behavior with a rude manner, the individual will feel negative emotions. Behavior differs from one person to another as a result of upbringing. when a person talks, acts, or tries to approach you with physical violence, then the answer is a big NO. Even if you’re at the street or anywhere in the world physical violence is not permitted. Once again, even if you’re approaching someone, physical violence is not permitted by any means. An obstacle that is also faced in our society is that people enforce their opinions, rules, or orders on each other. As fellow equals, I respect you, but I don’t need to listen to you or do what you want. I do belong to myself, and so do you. In an age of innovation and impowered women changing the world, we still have the urge to break each other down. With ladies like Angela Davis, Malala, Madonna, Annie Easly, Kamala Harris, Halimah Yacob, and Mary Barra, it is clear that the world is filled with smart, outstanding women. Therefore, women shouldn’t breakdown each other. Instead, they should support and empower one another, in order to shine the light on more women of glory. Spread love and positivity to your sister rather than your inner hate. Spread love to receive love.
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