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5 Signs it’s time you let go of the one you love

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Ever loved someone so much but still caused them pain? Unintentional pain that you try to soothe but fail? The process of love is long, one that requires patience and understanding but along the way, you may stumble upon challenges that will require only one thing, courage.

Courage to accept that it’s time to walk away. Bravery in admitting that you’re causing more damage than good. Sometimes you tighten your grip on someone, thinking this is love, this is me not giving up. When truth is, actual relief is in loosening your grip and letting go.

One question still remains, how to know that it is time for you to let go?

Well, the answer is you never really know. There are however, signs that should direct your feelings and they are what follows:

1- When you no longer add value to that person.

In both relationships and friendships, there has to be a mutual and beneficial bond. If you feel like you’re not adding value to that person or vice versa, then it is a strong sign. You’re supposed to not only help each other grow, but to also cherish the growth of one another, it shouldn’t scare you to see your partner thrives.

2- The scale of harm outweighs the good.

The damage at times may go unnoticed, because it causes mental sickness that can’t be always explained. This will appear in not wanting to talk anymore, and that is when your significant other may take it as a sign of giving up, when really all you want is for all the fighting to end. Without all the blaming, and fingers being pointed.

3- You’re both holding on to your rage.

At a certain point, you’ll both have to give up on your opinions on who is right and wrong, you’ll just have to accept the dead end of a discussion and move past it. If you can’t let go of your anger, then it’s definitely a bad sign. Compromising should extend to accepting the indifference of opinions, and moving on.

4- The trust is gone.

Breaking someone’s trust happens in a second, a situation or even a word. But for you to regain this trust, it takes longer, way longer. And this is the one thing that you can never push into happening quickly.

5- You’re just… drained.

Relationships require so much effort, that’s for sure. But is it really supposed to be this hard? There will come a time when you’ll feel like giving up, but a greater pull will stop you, and that’s love. But in certain cases, love won’t be enough.

When you can no longer understand each other, when the ground you’re standing on starts to shake, and all the things that brought you once together start to blur. The base of strong relationships isn’t love alone, it’s love, respect, understanding and patience. When these values begin to fade, your relationship starts to hang on a very thin thread.

It’s love that will push you to try and be worthy of someone’s love, to try over and over again. But when you start to feel that your absence would be a remedy, a bless, then that is your cue to leave.

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It’s Time You Walk Away When…

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I hold my phone every other second, still, not a single word from him. I toss and I turn, not able to sleep, and I start to wonder, is he okay? What is he doing right now? Has he gone home safely? I’ll text and see. ‘No. Stop it. He’s fine not hearing from you.’ My overthinking begins to tell me.

Why is he okay not asking about me when I’m not? Well, maybe because this is my first sign that I should away.

1- They care less than you do

When your relationship starts getting fragile, it is important that the other person assures you that they have equal feelings. That you’re both in this together, and you will work it out, together. It should never be all on you, you shouldn’t be the only person making the effort. So stop being the quicker person to call, and stop worrying so much. Let them do the call, the texting, let them do the fixing. Because again, you’re in this together, or you’re out, you walk away.

2- They always make excuses not to meet

You want to meet up, go over things, discuss it like adults and come up with a plan, right? But it never happens, right? Because they always seem to find an excuse to get out of it, or they simply can’t do this same conversation again. They say they can’t do this fighting anymore, but when you’re fighting for your relationship, then it’s legitimate and if they can’t do it, they don’t deserve you.

3- They can’t be trusted

Relationships can lack several fundamentals, but one thing it should never lack, is trust. It is what relationships are built on, and once it is taken from the equation, the relationship falls. I’m not telling you to give up the second they do you wrong, but to earn your trust again, they should work hard for it, and this chance you are giving them, should never be taken for granted.

4- They are cold

The way they treat you is cold, the way they respond is cold, even the way they smile back at you is cold. This change in behavior can only be spotted by you, and when you start comparing their responses to the way it used to be, this is when you will get your answer.

Never allow yourself to be with someone, who just doesn’t seem to care anymore. Someone who’s keeping you, because they are being selfish, and not reasonable.

5- They exhibit an error in communication

Communication is a key to a healthy relationship, it’s important for the both of you to know that you’re standing on the same ground, that you both feel and want the same thing. It’s okay to experience some miscommunication, but what matters is for the both of you to admit having this issue; so you can work through it and get past it.

Try to allow the space for each of you to speak their minds, with no interruptions AT ALL. Listening is a key to understanding, and accepting that difference in your point of views, is another key.

I can never really tell you for sure that this is your cue to leave, because at the end, it’s not signs that you should follow, it is your intuition. So what does it tell you?

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It’s Chocolate/Flower Day!

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Today marks the 14th and in case you were too busy to shop the perfect gift, here’s a list of Instagram accounts and places that sell the cutest, most creative flowers and chocolates sets.

And even if you did buy a gift, flowers and chocolates are always a nice plus!

  • The Batter Half& Co.

Known for their innovative desserts and customized cakes, the Batter half is making beautiful packages of desserts and flowers, basically a girl’s favorite things.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebatterhalf/

  • Lariba chocolate. 

The page is doing a fascinating chocolate related job, there is a variety of innovative chocolate shapes that surely will dazzle your one!

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laribachocolate/

  • Bloom Dose. 

They create an elegant mix between chocolates and flowers, the beauty is in balancing between both, and they have done it quite well.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bloomdose/

  • Box of roses. 

Now, this is a personal favor, a box of perfectly set flowers that combines a vintage touch with a modern feel. And just FYI, a box of roses isn’t exclusive to a certain occasion.

They also have the famous Beauty & the Beast flower.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boxofrosesegypt/

  • Keni flower shop.

Another personal favorite thanks to the diversity of their flowers, both in types and colors.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keniflower/

  • Voila Dessert Shop. 

They offer artistic gourmet chocolates assortment, that are both catchy to the eye and yummy for the tummy!

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/voiladessert_eg/

Hope this list add an extra flavor to your day. Happy valentine’s and may the odds be in your favor!

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The couple guide for Valentine’s day

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It’s almost Valentine’s day, the day which your love is tested based on the type of plans you have set for this day. So you better make the best out of it, and it can’t be just like any other outing and you can’t definitely ask her for suggestions, can you?

So here is us, offering you help with a list of ideas of things you can do. You’re welcome!

1. Make it a musical night.

For the ones who appreciate good music, then valentine’s is definitely better spent, swaying to the rhythm of tunes. Just make sure to pick places that are playing your favorite genre, and your partner’s.

Recommendations:

MxS: The Sinatras On Valentine’s Day @Darb1718

The band performs Frank Sinatra’s songs to praise his memory, and other pieces by similar artists and jazz tunes from the same period between 1940-1960.

Darb1718 have a monthly Music programs, where artists come and musical nights are held on their roof; presenting a unique experience with a limited seat numbers.

Date: Thursday 14 February 2019

Time: 8:00 PM

Tickets: 75 EGP

Tickets are available through “TicketsMarche”

2. Candle-lit dinner night.

Going old school is always a good idea, and appeals to a lot of couples who don’t like to change their rituals. But make sure to choose the right place and the right scenery.

Recommendations:

Eish & Malh @downtown Cairo

Located in the heart of Cairo, the restaurant is known for its coziness. And now, it’s offering a candle lit dinner with a special menu for Valentine’s Day and live music from 7- 10 PM. An extra thing to be added to its pro list, is that afterwards you can have a scroll in Downtown, maybe have some ice cream, or catch a movie.

They offer A la carte, specials, and pre-set menus.

No minimum.

For Reservations: 01098744014.

3. Take a road trip.

The car ride itself is going to make an enjoyable day, and the destination is just a plus! You can make it to Alexandria, it makes a perfect getaway especially this time of the year.

You can have dinner at one of El Shatby’s cafes, overlooking the sea. Another choice is Latino café, the food there is splendid and the view is very romantic! Afterwards, you can go for a walk in the streets of Alexandria, and have some ice cream @Azza before hitting the road again.

4. A day use in a hotel.

You can book a day use at a fancy hotel, reward your loved one with some spa time, then go for a dip. Or you can simply book dinner at their restaurants for those who don’t offer a day use.

Recommendations:

Mena Marriott Cairo:

With their view of the pyramids, they surely make a perfect destination for lovers. Just make sure to book the outdoor area when reserving over the phone.

Kempinski Nile Hotel Cairo:

Their Blue restaurant is your go-to place for a romantic date, their dinner set is a bit pricey but worth it. You will get to enjoy their authentic delicacies of the Mediterranean Turkish cuisine and live violin music.

For reservations: 02 27980000

5. Do it differently!

While everybody else will be obviously going for something romantic like the above, choose to do it differently! Go bowling or skiing @SkiEgypt, maybe even some arcade fun @Magic planet, get some take outs afterwards and cruise in your car while playing your favorite tunes. It doesn’t have to something fancy to be romantic, some girls like simplicity, if your is that kind, then choose a casual place where she can be herself in.
At the end, the scenery that matters is her smile, isn’t it?

 

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